Gracious : courteous, kind, and pleasant, especially towards someone of lower social status.Benign : gentle and kind.Infructuous : pointless or unnecessary.Churlish : rude in a mean-spirited and surly way.Wasteful : (of a person, action, or process) using or expending something of value carelessly, extravagantly, or to no purpose.Antonym of Gracious is Churlish