Following: coming after or as a result of.Refusing: indicate or show that one is not willing to do something.Contradicting: deny the truth of (a statement) by asserting the opposite.Protesting: a statement or action expressing disapproval of or objection to something.Ordering: let, enjoin, license, order, send an order, ordain.Obeying: acting according to what one has been askedSo antonym of obeying is refusing.